LJ and PJ are now sharing LJ's room! R and his brother assembled bunk beds and we put our fabulous queen-sized guest bed on loan to M and B. They have special directions to only use it as a guest bed so that it is not slept in every night...one day, we'll have room for that most-comfy bed again.
The first night went pretty well - I'm actually a bit surprised at how well it went. It was my goal to get them into sharing a room weeeellll before the school year starts so that they can figure out how to leave each other alone and go to sleep! They talked a bit last night and I did have to go sit in there for about 15 minutes to settle them down, but I left the room before they were asleep and they feel asleep soon after. LJ is on top and PJ is on bottom. They both picked out their own quilt and are both rather excited to have more floor space to play.
I was apprehensive about nap time today, but they both slept a little (PJ probably not as long as he would have normally) and they didn't get out of bed until 3:30, so I consider that all good. I have a feeling things will get a bit worse before they settle in for good. The next thing we need to tackle is getting a dresser out of the barn and moving PJ's clothes to their new shared room, but we have time for that. PJ thinks he has 2 rooms right now - one for sleeping and one for his clothes. LJ explained that he only has one room and the other room is for the baby...which caused PJ to ask me when I'm going to get the baby out of my tummy.
I only have 3 more days of summer school and then I'm through until I go back to work after my baby leave...whew! It is hot our there and I'm tired of teaching for 4 hours straight...everyday. I don't know how K-12 teachers do it.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Cleaning and Mildly Sick Kids
I think I have a cleaning routine down. The key to this working is not to let the clutter get out of control. This means making sure the kids aren't going nuts getting toys out AND that they put them away at regular intervals. They don't seem to mind putting them away when the task isn't so overwhelming. Also, I put stuff away a couple of times a day (it takes like 10 minutes each time) and that keeps things under control. Keeping the clutter down then allows me to do 1 hour of house work a day...
In each of these areas, I clean surfaces, vacuum and steam the floor...meaning thoroughly...I move furniture that can be moved, etc.
Mondays - Kitchen and LJ's Room (and grocery store)
Tuesdays - Dining Room and PJ's Room
Wednesdays - Living Room and Computer Desk
Thursdays - Bathroom and Hallway (and Target)
Fridays - Our Bedroom
Saturdays - Vacuum house (without moving furniture...just to knock back the dirt/dust)
Sundays - No Cleaning
I do laundry on Wednesdays and Sundays. That's it. Unless there is something that is really needed. I fold laundry while I watch tv. As in, kids be gone!
I plan to do an extra 15 minutes a day for a week in each of these areas (ala Fly Lady) - so this week my extra 15 minutes is in the kitchen (not that this is where The Fly Lady is working...that is just where I decided to start). Yesterday, I cleaned the stove top...took off the grates, knobs, etc. and washed it all down. I have a clean stove top! I also cleaned off the window sill. Today, I'm going to clean the toaster oven.
LJ had a slight fever for a couple of days over the weekend...so he did a lot of "playing" camping and nap time. Yesterday, PJ had the fever. He refused to take Tylenol, so he is suffering needlessly. It does keep him listless and out of trouble though. Silver lining?!
I had my 30 week appointment yesterday. Nothing unusual. I do not have gestational diabetes. Blood pressure 124/70. I am measuring fine. Baby is moving. Heartbeat is strong. See the dr. again in 3 weeks. My feet and legs are frequently aching, I am generally unable to get a good breath and I'm getting pooped quickly, but all to be expected.
Tomorrow, I start summer school - 4 hours of teaching every morning until July 23rd. Should be interesting. Plus, I imagine this will have some impact on my ability to keep to my cleaning schedule.
In each of these areas, I clean surfaces, vacuum and steam the floor...meaning thoroughly...I move furniture that can be moved, etc.
Mondays - Kitchen and LJ's Room (and grocery store)
Tuesdays - Dining Room and PJ's Room
Wednesdays - Living Room and Computer Desk
Thursdays - Bathroom and Hallway (and Target)
Fridays - Our Bedroom
Saturdays - Vacuum house (without moving furniture...just to knock back the dirt/dust)
Sundays - No Cleaning
I do laundry on Wednesdays and Sundays. That's it. Unless there is something that is really needed. I fold laundry while I watch tv. As in, kids be gone!
I plan to do an extra 15 minutes a day for a week in each of these areas (ala Fly Lady) - so this week my extra 15 minutes is in the kitchen (not that this is where The Fly Lady is working...that is just where I decided to start). Yesterday, I cleaned the stove top...took off the grates, knobs, etc. and washed it all down. I have a clean stove top! I also cleaned off the window sill. Today, I'm going to clean the toaster oven.
LJ had a slight fever for a couple of days over the weekend...so he did a lot of "playing" camping and nap time. Yesterday, PJ had the fever. He refused to take Tylenol, so he is suffering needlessly. It does keep him listless and out of trouble though. Silver lining?!
I had my 30 week appointment yesterday. Nothing unusual. I do not have gestational diabetes. Blood pressure 124/70. I am measuring fine. Baby is moving. Heartbeat is strong. See the dr. again in 3 weeks. My feet and legs are frequently aching, I am generally unable to get a good breath and I'm getting pooped quickly, but all to be expected.
Tomorrow, I start summer school - 4 hours of teaching every morning until July 23rd. Should be interesting. Plus, I imagine this will have some impact on my ability to keep to my cleaning schedule.
Tuesday, June 08, 2010
I Will Never Catch Up!
I'm quite confident I will never catch up on all the happenings of the Js, so I'm going to stop thinking that I will.
The Pennsylvania newsletter is not going to happen. I'll try, but I can't promise anything or give ETA. A recap of our trip to the beach is not going to happen. Once again, I'll try, but I've already forgotten what happened on which day. At least with the PA trip, I made notes - with the beach...on the car ride home - all the days were already a blur! As usual, we have plenty of pictures and video of all, so there is still hope.
Upon arrival home, we were delighted that B had safely arrived from Hong Kong, but pretty quickly events transpired such that M is also home from Hong Kong and I have a new great nephew! He came about 6 weeks earlier than expected and will spend some time in the hospital catching up on the growing he needs to do, but otherwise, everyone appears to be in good health. This just goes to show that plans don't always work the way we think they will! In an effort to help them all out, RJ has assumed some "general contractor" duties and is trying to match the work M&B want/need done to their fixer-uper with the people to do the work.
LJ went to a week of camp at his school - 9:00 - noon, M-F last week and had a very good time. His "best friend" from his class was there and that gave them an extra week to play together. Now, LJ and PJ are adjusting to being home together all day...and how to negotiate playing with each other in a nice way.
I have been teaching a new course for UofP - focused on grammar. Just because I have a graduate degree in English does not mean that I know grammar! I do happen to have a decent grasp on grammar terms and diagramming sentences is a favorite of mine (although the students do not have to diagram sentences...if they did, their heads would explode)...diagramming sentences pretty much forces you to understand grammar terminology. BTW - I don't consider this blog to require strict grammar adherence. The simple fact that this is a new course dictates that it takes more of my time, so I've been busy with that. The class is really on about a 5th grade level, so the material isn't difficult for me, but I've learned to modify ALL assignments to remove any directions for the students to write their own sentences. When they write their own sentences - things get crazy! It is somewhat amusing to read posts where students talk about how bad sentence fragments are...when they are not writing complete sentences.
I am going to Denver to lend whatever help and support I can to my dear friend C - before I am no longer fit for travel. After that, RJ and I are going to my 20th High School Reunion. Then, I teach 2nd Summer Session. Once that is over, we progress toward the beginning of the Fall semester...LJ will be in Kindergarten and PJ is going to go to pre-school 2 days a week...and I'll be having baby #3. I have a feeling it is all going to move very quickly.
I am generally feeling well. I haven't been sick since May 1. I am experiencing Pelvic Girdle Pain - sometimes it is VERY painful. With PJ, I had trouble with my "pubic symphysis"...I felt as though my pubic bone had been hit with a baseball bat. With this little one, I am having trouble with my "sacroiliac joints". I frequently express that "my right bottom hurts" or "my left bottom hurts". Usually, it hurts, but is not debilitating. Earlier this week, it was debilitating. My "left bottom" was so painful I could not lay on it and my left leg was feeling generally weak. I seriously rated it an 8 on the 1-10 pain scale. It was hurting more than my broken wrist hurt - and for longer. I started to wonder if I had fractured my hip and didn't know it. After about 2 hours of trying to sleep and being in such pain, I took some Tylenol and that really did help. I figure, if I see my dr. and tell her Tylenol helps, she'll tell me to take Tylenol, so I'm not going to make a special appointment. I got a support belt to help align my pelvic bone and support my baby belly and I treated myself to a special body pillow to put between my knees and under my belly when I sleep. This combination has allowed me to avoid the 8 pain. When I bought the pillow, I told the check out lady, "My husband will comment about this pillow. He won't be upset, but he will make a comment!" - and, RJ did...you know the "we need another pillow?" kind of comment. I just reminded him about all that he has in his barn and we left it at that!
Off to the grocery store...
The Pennsylvania newsletter is not going to happen. I'll try, but I can't promise anything or give ETA. A recap of our trip to the beach is not going to happen. Once again, I'll try, but I've already forgotten what happened on which day. At least with the PA trip, I made notes - with the beach...on the car ride home - all the days were already a blur! As usual, we have plenty of pictures and video of all, so there is still hope.
Upon arrival home, we were delighted that B had safely arrived from Hong Kong, but pretty quickly events transpired such that M is also home from Hong Kong and I have a new great nephew! He came about 6 weeks earlier than expected and will spend some time in the hospital catching up on the growing he needs to do, but otherwise, everyone appears to be in good health. This just goes to show that plans don't always work the way we think they will! In an effort to help them all out, RJ has assumed some "general contractor" duties and is trying to match the work M&B want/need done to their fixer-uper with the people to do the work.
LJ went to a week of camp at his school - 9:00 - noon, M-F last week and had a very good time. His "best friend" from his class was there and that gave them an extra week to play together. Now, LJ and PJ are adjusting to being home together all day...and how to negotiate playing with each other in a nice way.
I have been teaching a new course for UofP - focused on grammar. Just because I have a graduate degree in English does not mean that I know grammar! I do happen to have a decent grasp on grammar terms and diagramming sentences is a favorite of mine (although the students do not have to diagram sentences...if they did, their heads would explode)...diagramming sentences pretty much forces you to understand grammar terminology. BTW - I don't consider this blog to require strict grammar adherence. The simple fact that this is a new course dictates that it takes more of my time, so I've been busy with that. The class is really on about a 5th grade level, so the material isn't difficult for me, but I've learned to modify ALL assignments to remove any directions for the students to write their own sentences. When they write their own sentences - things get crazy! It is somewhat amusing to read posts where students talk about how bad sentence fragments are...when they are not writing complete sentences.
I am going to Denver to lend whatever help and support I can to my dear friend C - before I am no longer fit for travel. After that, RJ and I are going to my 20th High School Reunion. Then, I teach 2nd Summer Session. Once that is over, we progress toward the beginning of the Fall semester...LJ will be in Kindergarten and PJ is going to go to pre-school 2 days a week...and I'll be having baby #3. I have a feeling it is all going to move very quickly.
I am generally feeling well. I haven't been sick since May 1. I am experiencing Pelvic Girdle Pain - sometimes it is VERY painful. With PJ, I had trouble with my "pubic symphysis"...I felt as though my pubic bone had been hit with a baseball bat. With this little one, I am having trouble with my "sacroiliac joints". I frequently express that "my right bottom hurts" or "my left bottom hurts". Usually, it hurts, but is not debilitating. Earlier this week, it was debilitating. My "left bottom" was so painful I could not lay on it and my left leg was feeling generally weak. I seriously rated it an 8 on the 1-10 pain scale. It was hurting more than my broken wrist hurt - and for longer. I started to wonder if I had fractured my hip and didn't know it. After about 2 hours of trying to sleep and being in such pain, I took some Tylenol and that really did help. I figure, if I see my dr. and tell her Tylenol helps, she'll tell me to take Tylenol, so I'm not going to make a special appointment. I got a support belt to help align my pelvic bone and support my baby belly and I treated myself to a special body pillow to put between my knees and under my belly when I sleep. This combination has allowed me to avoid the 8 pain. When I bought the pillow, I told the check out lady, "My husband will comment about this pillow. He won't be upset, but he will make a comment!" - and, RJ did...you know the "we need another pillow?" kind of comment. I just reminded him about all that he has in his barn and we left it at that!
Off to the grocery store...
Thursday, May 27, 2010
End-of-School
I will attempt to do a catch-up here!
Wednesday, May 19th
RJ spent the entire day with LJ at school. They had some tricycles to return. RJ has been the tricycle repair man - these kids are tough on the trikes! Apparently, this job is much appreciated by all. He even got a mention in LJ's teacher's end-of-the year letter. It seems that, when the tricycles are out of commission, the kids are crazy during outside time, so the teachers prefer the tricycles to be in good working order.
RJ had been feeling as though he had missed out on knowing what is going on when LJ is at school, so he decided to spend the morning. I believe he has written a post about this, so I'll let him give his report.
After school, we all went out to lunch and then home for a typical afternoon of naps, playing, snacks and swimming.
Thursday, May 20
RJ went to work and I started packing for our trip to the beach. At 10:00, I went to my spray-tan appointment! The week before, I had been at my hair salon for my usual procedures and a lady emerged from the back with her recently applied spray-tan. So, I asked some questions and saw the results and decided that I would be happier going to the beach (as a pregnant lady) with golden skin. The spraying was no problem, but I needed to wait 8 hours before showering so that it could all set-in. This was annoying. I spent the day in my swimsuit cover-up, doing laundry, gathering supplies, and packing, so I didn't need to go out. But, I was kind of sticky most of the day...and just generally uncomfortable.
RJ came home from work and decided to check out the rear brake pads on the Tahoe. So, he did some car repairs before LJ informed us that his Crocs are just too small and he needs new ones. I showered (a glorious shower that involved the rinsing off of the "guide line" - which is brown) and we went out for Crocs, car parts, and dinner.
Friday, May 21
RJ took LJ to his last day of pre-school! I finished the last minute packing and getting the house ready for our departure. Upon his return from dropping LJ at school, RJ did his last car preparations and packing. Around 10:30, RJ, PJ and I left the house for our attendance at LJ's end-of-year school party and then straight on the road for the beach.
LJ's party appeared to be lots of fun! They made home-made ice cream and played in a "water contraption" made of PVC pipe. PJ enjoyed playing on the playground and I visited with the other moms...where I was informed that they have 1 opening in the 3-year-olds MWF and 1 opening in the 3-year-olds TR class next fall. RJ hadn't even thought about PJ attending pre-school at age 3, but we were about to spend the next 3 days considering it! The head-of-school told us we could call on Monday to let her know - after that, she needed to start calling people on the waiting list (since we have a sibling at this school already - we get out ahead of people without siblings at the school).
After pictures and "see you laters", we headed to pick up Jfer and then to our destination in Louisiana.
Our car ride was rather uneventful...full of stops and SHHHs and treat bags with trains and snacks...until Baton Rouge. Baton Rouge is where we take I-12 North instead of I-10 South (to New Orleans). Our hotel for the night is on I-12, right before it joins back with I-10. Well, as we are speeding by on the Interstate, we are seeing signs (temporary - signs that are digital and what they say can be changed) that say something about I-12 being closed and to take I-1o as a detour...and something about 30 miles. It is hard to read at 70 mph...surrounded by traffic and looking for the I-12 exit. But, I can tell you that having to go down to New Orleans would be one heck of an out-of-the way detour. So, we pull over, look at LDOT and it seems there is an overturned truck about 30 minutes up I-12 and the road is closed. We look at the map and decide to go on 12 until right before the closure and then go across on a smaller road. When we exit 12, we figure there will be a place to eat dinner.
Our choices were Subway and Wayne's Bar-B-Q. We chose the local-flavor of Wayne's and, while the food wasn't very good, we talked to a local guy who told us what road to use...it would be less crowded and quicker. So, Wayne's was worth it for the information. We got to our hotel and went straight to bed. I slept with PJ (BIG mistake...I guess I'm like a magnet for him as his slept ON me) and RJ slept with LJ...who snored loudly...his nose was stopped up. Jfer slept on the pull out couch. The people upstairs either had children who ran across the floor for 45 minutes at 10:30 or were square-dancing. As you can gather, we did not sleep well!
Saturday, May 08, 2010
MMRs, Birthday Parties and Jellybeans
We took both kids to the dr. for a well visit and their next vaccination. I took LJ on Monday. He is due for his 2nd MMR, 2nd Varicella, and last DTaP and Polio. We only did the MMR and will do the Vacricalla and the combo DTap/Polio at the end of the summer. This is in accordance with our spacing the vaccines to keep the level of aluminum and other "extra" substances to a "more acceptable level". So, you can see, by the time he enters Kindergarten, he'll have all of the vaccines he's supposed to have...just not at such an accelerated rate.
He actually cried about the shot, but got a lollipop in the end, so all was good.
RJ took PJ on Friday. He got his 1st MMR. According to RJ, PJ did not cry and he got a Thomas sticker, so he was happy. PJ spent the morning saying, "I'm ready to go get my shot now!" - so I guess he was truly ready!
LJ has a birthday party to go to...at 2:00pm ON MOTHER'S DAY! Who does this? Well, I can tell you who, but I won't. First of all, is our 5 year old the last 5 year old on earth who still takes an afternoon nap? It would seem so if I take the typical birthday party time as any indication. Sure, he doesn't always sleep, but LJ goes to his room and lays on his bed for 2 hours every afternoon that we are home. Second of all, Mother's Day? I think you get my point. So, today, LJ and I need to buy a birthday gift for this child. The volume of gifts that I see piled up at these parties strengthens my resolve not to have a birthday party where we invite his classmates.
I don't know about you, but we still have most of the Easter candy in our house. We, the J parents, didn't even do much candy, but somehow, we accumulated a ton of it. I labeled a Ziploc bag with each child's name on it (have to keep the candy separated!) and I dug the jellybeans out and put them in a bowl. PJ knows this bowl exists and, for every 1 time he asks if he can have a jellybean, it appears there are about 10 times that he just helps himself without asking! I'm to the point where I don't care anymore...the sooner they are gone, the better.
He actually cried about the shot, but got a lollipop in the end, so all was good.
RJ took PJ on Friday. He got his 1st MMR. According to RJ, PJ did not cry and he got a Thomas sticker, so he was happy. PJ spent the morning saying, "I'm ready to go get my shot now!" - so I guess he was truly ready!
LJ has a birthday party to go to...at 2:00pm ON MOTHER'S DAY! Who does this? Well, I can tell you who, but I won't. First of all, is our 5 year old the last 5 year old on earth who still takes an afternoon nap? It would seem so if I take the typical birthday party time as any indication. Sure, he doesn't always sleep, but LJ goes to his room and lays on his bed for 2 hours every afternoon that we are home. Second of all, Mother's Day? I think you get my point. So, today, LJ and I need to buy a birthday gift for this child. The volume of gifts that I see piled up at these parties strengthens my resolve not to have a birthday party where we invite his classmates.
I don't know about you, but we still have most of the Easter candy in our house. We, the J parents, didn't even do much candy, but somehow, we accumulated a ton of it. I labeled a Ziploc bag with each child's name on it (have to keep the candy separated!) and I dug the jellybeans out and put them in a bowl. PJ knows this bowl exists and, for every 1 time he asks if he can have a jellybean, it appears there are about 10 times that he just helps himself without asking! I'm to the point where I don't care anymore...the sooner they are gone, the better.
Thursday, May 06, 2010
Trips, Birthdays, Cookie Contests, Etc.
It has been a rather busy time for the Js. At the end of April we went on a "big" trip to Pennsylvania and New York. This was the boys' first time on an airplane and they were excited. We had a terrific time - although we slept very little. I am working on a newsletter-style highlight that includes a few pictures...I'll e-mail it to anyone who wants it when I'm finished, so if you want it, let me know! To help you decide, highlights include: Steam train ride, PJ's birthday (in NYC), and NYC. I don't see how you could *NOT* want to receive the newsletter, but I realize I might be biased. Do you realize that I'm using you to try to prod me to actually finish this newsletter????
Immediately following our return from Pennsylvania, we were slated to get in the car and drive 6 hours (one-way) to the wedding of my cousin's daughter. The kids were on so little sleep that dark circles were appearing under their eyes and RJ was exhausted too. So, we decided that Mom and I would fly to the wedding and spend one night while RJ stayed home with the boys. It was Cookie Contest weekend and we were a bit bummed to have to miss it anyway. Plus, there was some super-fantastic "tool auction" that RJ wanted to attend (and, according to the credit card statement - did buy some super-fantastic tools). This plan sounded good all the way around. This plan also allowed me and RJ to have dinner with my friends Chrissy, Katherine, and Johanna on Friday night...of course, we didn't get home until 11:00 pm and our flight left at 7:10 am. Once again, little sleep.
I woke on Saturday not feeling just right, but I figured I was just tired. Mom and I got to our destination with no problems, upgraded our rental to a Cadillac (this is what happens when I think that we "deserve" a nice reward!), and found our hotel. Seeing as how it was only 10:45 am, I figured that actually checking in was not likely. Turns out I was correct. In fact, "there will be NO rooms available until 3:00." I did not like this. I was tired and still not feeling quite right.
Mom and I ate a snack at Panera Bread and decided to drive our Cadillac to the church and reception to make sure we had good directions. Then, we sat in the hotel lobby and tried to eye ball the receptionist...you know, make her feel uncomfortable and all. She told anyone else who tried to check-in the same thing though. At 1:00, we met a friend of mine from my mommy message board for lunch. I wasn't too hungry, but we had a nice visit. Upon return to the hotel, we were able to check-in. Once in the room, we rested and got ready for the wedding.
The wedding was nice - a bit traditional and non-traditional...very humorous. It was hot in the church, but it was all very nice. The reception location was nice as well. We visited with R & K and our cousin, but I was seriously not feeling well. In fact, in short-order, I was the lady in the first stall hurling my lunch. Nice. I left the reception (and Mom to be returned to the hotel by R & K on their way out of town) and hoped this was a one-time deal. Alas, it was not. Finally, around 11:00 pm - with thoughts about the plane ride home in fewer than 12 hours lurking in the depths of my mind and no end to the sickness in sight...I called the answering service for my doctor. I found a 24 hour CVS and begged the on-call doctor to call me some Phenergan suppositories. He expressed concern of possible dehydration, but I convinced him that I am a professional, so he obliged. With the hotel ice bucket and directions in hand, I headed out (in the Cadillac) to the CVS, which for all I know - is located in a not-so-good part of town. I made it without incident, used the ice bucket while waiting in the drive-thru, and made it back to the hotel. I was in bed and relieved of my need to visit the bathroom by 1:00 am.
I spent the next day feeling as though I had been drugged - Phenergan does this, but it beats the alternative. Mom and I made it home without incident. I slept most of the rest of the day and night.
Mom says she had a nice time at the wedding reception. I, however, did not enjoy this trip.
While I was gone - LJ won his age-bracket and is, once again, the Cookie King! PJ was in the same age-bracket as LJ this year, but he only ate 1 cookie and LJ ate 3.
Immediately following our return from Pennsylvania, we were slated to get in the car and drive 6 hours (one-way) to the wedding of my cousin's daughter. The kids were on so little sleep that dark circles were appearing under their eyes and RJ was exhausted too. So, we decided that Mom and I would fly to the wedding and spend one night while RJ stayed home with the boys. It was Cookie Contest weekend and we were a bit bummed to have to miss it anyway. Plus, there was some super-fantastic "tool auction" that RJ wanted to attend (and, according to the credit card statement - did buy some super-fantastic tools). This plan sounded good all the way around. This plan also allowed me and RJ to have dinner with my friends Chrissy, Katherine, and Johanna on Friday night...of course, we didn't get home until 11:00 pm and our flight left at 7:10 am. Once again, little sleep.
I woke on Saturday not feeling just right, but I figured I was just tired. Mom and I got to our destination with no problems, upgraded our rental to a Cadillac (this is what happens when I think that we "deserve" a nice reward!), and found our hotel. Seeing as how it was only 10:45 am, I figured that actually checking in was not likely. Turns out I was correct. In fact, "there will be NO rooms available until 3:00." I did not like this. I was tired and still not feeling quite right.
Mom and I ate a snack at Panera Bread and decided to drive our Cadillac to the church and reception to make sure we had good directions. Then, we sat in the hotel lobby and tried to eye ball the receptionist...you know, make her feel uncomfortable and all. She told anyone else who tried to check-in the same thing though. At 1:00, we met a friend of mine from my mommy message board for lunch. I wasn't too hungry, but we had a nice visit. Upon return to the hotel, we were able to check-in. Once in the room, we rested and got ready for the wedding.
The wedding was nice - a bit traditional and non-traditional...very humorous. It was hot in the church, but it was all very nice. The reception location was nice as well. We visited with R & K and our cousin, but I was seriously not feeling well. In fact, in short-order, I was the lady in the first stall hurling my lunch. Nice. I left the reception (and Mom to be returned to the hotel by R & K on their way out of town) and hoped this was a one-time deal. Alas, it was not. Finally, around 11:00 pm - with thoughts about the plane ride home in fewer than 12 hours lurking in the depths of my mind and no end to the sickness in sight...I called the answering service for my doctor. I found a 24 hour CVS and begged the on-call doctor to call me some Phenergan suppositories. He expressed concern of possible dehydration, but I convinced him that I am a professional, so he obliged. With the hotel ice bucket and directions in hand, I headed out (in the Cadillac) to the CVS, which for all I know - is located in a not-so-good part of town. I made it without incident, used the ice bucket while waiting in the drive-thru, and made it back to the hotel. I was in bed and relieved of my need to visit the bathroom by 1:00 am.
I spent the next day feeling as though I had been drugged - Phenergan does this, but it beats the alternative. Mom and I made it home without incident. I slept most of the rest of the day and night.
Mom says she had a nice time at the wedding reception. I, however, did not enjoy this trip.
While I was gone - LJ won his age-bracket and is, once again, the Cookie King! PJ was in the same age-bracket as LJ this year, but he only ate 1 cookie and LJ ate 3.
Monday, April 12, 2010
Monday
Sunday, PJ woke without a fever and it slowly rose to 100 by the end of the day. LJ woke with 101 and had 103.6 upon waking from his nap. Tylenol got it down to 100.
RJ got home around 5:00 yesterday and was really nice about jumping right in and letting me have a break. I ordered Pei Wei take-out and went all.by.myself to pick it up. I took VeggieTales right out of that CD player and blasted Saturday Night (Elton John - I know, I'm a REBEL) in the car. Asian Chopped Chicken Salad hit the spot.
RJ gave me a debrief of the conference and the kids went to bed. We watched Survivor on the DVR and then went to bed too. Once again, there were about 5 calls in the night from the children, but we all survived.
This morning, PJ was fever-free and LJ had 101. I went to work and the grocery store and came home. We had lunch and the kids went down for naps. Upon waking, PJ is still fever-free...and his nose has not been running today. LJ has 99, but he had some Tylenol at lunch, so we'll see what progresses today. During naps I worked on receipts for health savings account reimbursement and paid various odd bills.
I'm still praying I don't get the flu!
RJ got home around 5:00 yesterday and was really nice about jumping right in and letting me have a break. I ordered Pei Wei take-out and went all.by.myself to pick it up. I took VeggieTales right out of that CD player and blasted Saturday Night (Elton John - I know, I'm a REBEL) in the car. Asian Chopped Chicken Salad hit the spot.
RJ gave me a debrief of the conference and the kids went to bed. We watched Survivor on the DVR and then went to bed too. Once again, there were about 5 calls in the night from the children, but we all survived.
This morning, PJ was fever-free and LJ had 101. I went to work and the grocery store and came home. We had lunch and the kids went down for naps. Upon waking, PJ is still fever-free...and his nose has not been running today. LJ has 99, but he had some Tylenol at lunch, so we'll see what progresses today. During naps I worked on receipts for health savings account reimbursement and paid various odd bills.
I'm still praying I don't get the flu!
Saturday, April 10, 2010
This Should Catch Us Up
At the end of March, we went to SA for the night to eat dinner and have a play date with Chrissy and family. That was fun and a welcome change from being home and being sick! The next day, RJ left for a conference in New Orleans. We put him on the plane and once the plane took off...LJ and PJ both started crying. So, I soothed them by occupying our minds with planning a Welcome Home party for when Daddy returns. LJ thought this little party should have a Batman theme. This is interesting considering he had just told me (a few days earlier) that he (LJ) would like a Batman theme for his birthday...considering it was March, he sure talked about his birthday a lot. We survived our 3 nights without him, but we all missed him very much. MawMaw came over to stay with PJ on Monday and Wednesday while LJ went to school and I went to work. I'm not sure what happened on Monday, but when I got home, PJ was in his room and crying. I asked him what was the matter and he said, "MawMaw pank me" - ha!
Sunday, April 4 - Easter
At church, PJ was being very quite and studiously looking at the missalette...there was a responsorial Psalm on the page and he ran his fingers over the notes and seemed very interested. Right as I was thinking, "hmm, maybe PJ will be musically inclined", he held it up to his face and stuck out his tongue and licked the page. Sooo...I retracted my thoughts about his possible musical inclination. What possesses a child to lick the thin page of a missalette???
After church, we came home for our Easter Egg Hunt and then headed to Grandma and Grandpa's for the afternoon - which included lunch and another Easter Egg Hunt.
Tuesday, April 6
18 weeks 1 day - threw up last night, threw up this morning. I had been battling a headache all day. I slept horribly the night before. Most days I'm feeling pretty good, but I'm still having about 1-2 days out of the week that are NOT what I'd expect from 18 weeks.
It is unfortunate that I was out of sorts that day as I was one of the hostesses for LJ's class Easter party Wednesday. I was in charge of snacks. So, I needed to make cupcakes. But, I didn't.
Thursday, April 8
Thankfully, I felt better Wednesday, so I got up at 7:00 to make the cupcakes for the pre-school party. PJ was not feeling well and had a fever of 102. I gave him some Tylenol and while the cupcakes were cooling I went to the store for strawberries, bananas, milk and paper goods. PJ watched TV while I decorated the cupcakes. RJ came back from dropping LJ off at school and cut up strawberries. I had just enough time to put on some makeup before the babysitter arrived and I left for pre-school and RJ left to teach my class.
The Easter party was mass chaos, but I suppose that was to be expected. I think things took longer than the teacher desired and she seemed a bit out of sorts the entire time. LJ was excited I was at school and was very helpful in helping me put the snacks out.I ran home to pick up PJ because the babysitter had to meet her grandparents for lunch...ran back to school to pick up LJ...PJ fell asleep in the car - he was still not feeling well. We got home, I took PJ's temperature - 103. Called the dr. and made an appointment for 3:00 - RJ and I were to leave for a conference where we are on the planning committee, so this illness is not cool for many reasons.
I have to take both kids to the dr. because RJ is at a meeting for this conference. PJ has no ear or throat problems, so the dr. swabs his nose to do the rapid flu test...while it is late in the season, they have had a few cases in the past weeks. Test is positive - of course.
So, PJ has the flu. Since the fever is less than 24 hours old, she prescribes Tamiflu. I pick up the prescription and come home to call my OB...since I've been exposed to the flu. She prescribes a preventative course of Tamiflu for me and I go pick that up. Meanwhile, RJ is calling the babysitter to tell her PJ has the flu - she's had her flu shot, so she's not too worried. The babysitters for this weekend - 1 has had the shot (Jfer) and 1 has not (Bek). This is just going all down the tubes.
RJ has to go back up to work, but he makes the kids some dinner. Oh -rewind...PJ throws up 2x...that is lovely. Then, I throw up. As RJ is leaving for work, I throw up again. PJ has already asked to go to bed, so he is in bed. LJ is still up and, as I'm laying on the couch, I have to throw up again. I go ahead and use a phenergan suppository. Throw up one more time - that makes 4 times in 2 hours - and get LJ to bed. I go to be myself...feel like I might be able to fall asleep before throwing up...and PJ needs my attention. Finally - we are all in bed and it is quiet.
Thursday morning, I get up - not sure how the day will go - I'm deathly afraid I'm going to get the flu. Take PJ's temp - 102...I give him Tylenol - he's supposed to get Tamiflu 2x a day, but he will NOT take it. He will have nothing to do with it. We mix it with juice...nope. He wants milk - we mix it with milk - nope. He wants yogurt - mix it with that - nope. Now, this poor kid is sick is asking for a few drinks and some food and we are ruining it all for him with this Tamiflu. I'm willing to scrap it - it isn't a cure or anything - it just lessons symptoms and length of symptoms, but RJ keeps trying. We've wasted several doses by now, so we won't even be able to give it to him all the time he's supposed to have it.
So, now, I am staying home from the conference because I have fewer responsibilities than RJ. Obviously, a pregnant lady is not the best choice to stay home with the flu child, but it is the choice we have to make. I was not looking forward to taking the Tamiflu again - I'm pretty sure it is what made me throw up.
Saturday, April 10
Yesterday, Paul asked to go to bed several different times. He was in bed for the night at 6:30. And, as I sat on the couch with LJ I noticed that he felt hot. I broke our thermometer the other day, so I called my mom to go buy one and bring it over. 102.3. Terrific.
Last night was one of little sleep for me - mostly because every-so-often a child would go to the bathroom, cough, want a drink, want to tell me they don't feel well, etc. But, no catastrophes.
This morning - PJ finally has no fever!!!! I won't be surprised if one creeps in as the day goes by. LJ's is 100. I seem to remember fever is lowest in the morning?! Maybe I'm making that up. I'm trying to decide if I should take LJ to the dr. this morning - they are open from 8:30 - noon. I figure I'd better since tomorrow is Sunday and my health care options are limited and more expensive.
Took LJ in - he tested 'faint positive' for the flu. So far, his fever has not been as high as PJ's was. The dr. said that, once PJis fever-free, he shouldn't get a fever again, so if he does - to bring him in. This afternoon - he's had 100, but I'm thinking it is still flu-related and not going to be concerned...it is lower than the past 3 days. I am confused as all get out about taking the Tamiflu. Google it and you'll see why. I've taken 3 of the 10 doses, but today, at the dr. she said, "your OB approved you for Tamiflu?" - which got me all flummoxed again. I talked to RJ and we agreed that, we know what we are looking for here...fever. If I get a fever, I'll go to the dr. ASAP, get the rapid flu test done and, if positive, take the Tamiflu. I won't sit with the fever for a couple of days thinking it is a bug...I'll know it is likely the flu. So, I'm not going to take anymore. When you are pregnant - the internet is an evil place of doubt.
I gave LJ some Tylenol and sent him to lay down for a nap. An hour later, he is up and his fever is gone. I'm sure it'll come back, but now he thinks he is "all better" (he has yet to admit he is sick or doesn't feel well) and wants to play. Honestly, it is easier when they are fever-ridden and lay listless on the couch and watch TV...it almost makes me not want to give them the Tylenol. Besides a lower fever - PJ's main issue is that his nose is running like a faucet.
And this, Dear Reader, catches you up to current time!
Sunday, April 4 - Easter
At church, PJ was being very quite and studiously looking at the missalette...there was a responsorial Psalm on the page and he ran his fingers over the notes and seemed very interested. Right as I was thinking, "hmm, maybe PJ will be musically inclined", he held it up to his face and stuck out his tongue and licked the page. Sooo...I retracted my thoughts about his possible musical inclination. What possesses a child to lick the thin page of a missalette???
After church, we came home for our Easter Egg Hunt and then headed to Grandma and Grandpa's for the afternoon - which included lunch and another Easter Egg Hunt.
Tuesday, April 6
18 weeks 1 day - threw up last night, threw up this morning. I had been battling a headache all day. I slept horribly the night before. Most days I'm feeling pretty good, but I'm still having about 1-2 days out of the week that are NOT what I'd expect from 18 weeks.
It is unfortunate that I was out of sorts that day as I was one of the hostesses for LJ's class Easter party Wednesday. I was in charge of snacks. So, I needed to make cupcakes. But, I didn't.
Thursday, April 8
Thankfully, I felt better Wednesday, so I got up at 7:00 to make the cupcakes for the pre-school party. PJ was not feeling well and had a fever of 102. I gave him some Tylenol and while the cupcakes were cooling I went to the store for strawberries, bananas, milk and paper goods. PJ watched TV while I decorated the cupcakes. RJ came back from dropping LJ off at school and cut up strawberries. I had just enough time to put on some makeup before the babysitter arrived and I left for pre-school and RJ left to teach my class.
The Easter party was mass chaos, but I suppose that was to be expected. I think things took longer than the teacher desired and she seemed a bit out of sorts the entire time. LJ was excited I was at school and was very helpful in helping me put the snacks out.I ran home to pick up PJ because the babysitter had to meet her grandparents for lunch...ran back to school to pick up LJ...PJ fell asleep in the car - he was still not feeling well. We got home, I took PJ's temperature - 103. Called the dr. and made an appointment for 3:00 - RJ and I were to leave for a conference where we are on the planning committee, so this illness is not cool for many reasons.
I have to take both kids to the dr. because RJ is at a meeting for this conference. PJ has no ear or throat problems, so the dr. swabs his nose to do the rapid flu test...while it is late in the season, they have had a few cases in the past weeks. Test is positive - of course.
So, PJ has the flu. Since the fever is less than 24 hours old, she prescribes Tamiflu. I pick up the prescription and come home to call my OB...since I've been exposed to the flu. She prescribes a preventative course of Tamiflu for me and I go pick that up. Meanwhile, RJ is calling the babysitter to tell her PJ has the flu - she's had her flu shot, so she's not too worried. The babysitters for this weekend - 1 has had the shot (Jfer) and 1 has not (Bek). This is just going all down the tubes.
RJ has to go back up to work, but he makes the kids some dinner. Oh -rewind...PJ throws up 2x...that is lovely. Then, I throw up. As RJ is leaving for work, I throw up again. PJ has already asked to go to bed, so he is in bed. LJ is still up and, as I'm laying on the couch, I have to throw up again. I go ahead and use a phenergan suppository. Throw up one more time - that makes 4 times in 2 hours - and get LJ to bed. I go to be myself...feel like I might be able to fall asleep before throwing up...and PJ needs my attention. Finally - we are all in bed and it is quiet.
Thursday morning, I get up - not sure how the day will go - I'm deathly afraid I'm going to get the flu. Take PJ's temp - 102...I give him Tylenol - he's supposed to get Tamiflu 2x a day, but he will NOT take it. He will have nothing to do with it. We mix it with juice...nope. He wants milk - we mix it with milk - nope. He wants yogurt - mix it with that - nope. Now, this poor kid is sick is asking for a few drinks and some food and we are ruining it all for him with this Tamiflu. I'm willing to scrap it - it isn't a cure or anything - it just lessons symptoms and length of symptoms, but RJ keeps trying. We've wasted several doses by now, so we won't even be able to give it to him all the time he's supposed to have it.
So, now, I am staying home from the conference because I have fewer responsibilities than RJ. Obviously, a pregnant lady is not the best choice to stay home with the flu child, but it is the choice we have to make. I was not looking forward to taking the Tamiflu again - I'm pretty sure it is what made me throw up.
Saturday, April 10
Yesterday, Paul asked to go to bed several different times. He was in bed for the night at 6:30. And, as I sat on the couch with LJ I noticed that he felt hot. I broke our thermometer the other day, so I called my mom to go buy one and bring it over. 102.3. Terrific.
Last night was one of little sleep for me - mostly because every-so-often a child would go to the bathroom, cough, want a drink, want to tell me they don't feel well, etc. But, no catastrophes.
This morning - PJ finally has no fever!!!! I won't be surprised if one creeps in as the day goes by. LJ's is 100. I seem to remember fever is lowest in the morning?! Maybe I'm making that up. I'm trying to decide if I should take LJ to the dr. this morning - they are open from 8:30 - noon. I figure I'd better since tomorrow is Sunday and my health care options are limited and more expensive.
Took LJ in - he tested 'faint positive' for the flu. So far, his fever has not been as high as PJ's was. The dr. said that, once PJis fever-free, he shouldn't get a fever again, so if he does - to bring him in. This afternoon - he's had 100, but I'm thinking it is still flu-related and not going to be concerned...it is lower than the past 3 days. I am confused as all get out about taking the Tamiflu. Google it and you'll see why. I've taken 3 of the 10 doses, but today, at the dr. she said, "your OB approved you for Tamiflu?" - which got me all flummoxed again. I talked to RJ and we agreed that, we know what we are looking for here...fever. If I get a fever, I'll go to the dr. ASAP, get the rapid flu test done and, if positive, take the Tamiflu. I won't sit with the fever for a couple of days thinking it is a bug...I'll know it is likely the flu. So, I'm not going to take anymore. When you are pregnant - the internet is an evil place of doubt.
I gave LJ some Tylenol and sent him to lay down for a nap. An hour later, he is up and his fever is gone. I'm sure it'll come back, but now he thinks he is "all better" (he has yet to admit he is sick or doesn't feel well) and wants to play. Honestly, it is easier when they are fever-ridden and lay listless on the couch and watch TV...it almost makes me not want to give them the Tylenol. Besides a lower fever - PJ's main issue is that his nose is running like a faucet.
And this, Dear Reader, catches you up to current time!
Friday, April 09, 2010
Potty Training and What Followed
PJ didn't take to it as quickly as LJ did. It got better everyday, but the training isn't considered over until he takes himself to the potty without being reminded. This didn't happen on day 1 (as it did with LJ) or even week 1. I think he wasn't associating the feeling with the pee pee. But, he did get better every day and now you can get away without telling him to go potty every 30 minutes. He is sleeping in a Pull-Up though...the first few nights, we did not do a pull up...and we had to change sheets and pjs quite a few times. Around night 3, we put a pull up over his underwear and he said, "Oh good, now I can pee pee in my pull up" - so, you can see that he would really rather not be bothered to have to go to the potty! Now, he'll yell, "I've gotta go pee pee" and we tell him to go ahead and go...and accidents are few and far between.
They did all of their assessments and gave me a shot of phenergin. My head was still pounding, but I wasn't writhing in discomfort about to hurl any more. We got home about 11:00 and I went straight to bed. RJ went to the pharmacy to pick up the phenergin suppositories I was prescribed and didn't get to bed until about 1:00.
Monday, I was in bed and eating small bits of jello and toast and water. I kept burping, but did not throw up. I had a headache and felt rather weak. I called my OB just to let her know what is going on. I think it was a stomach bug. This happened 3x with PJ and lasted 3 days each time. I was not looking forward to 3 days of this, so I went to beg for a shot! Of course, the dr. at the hospital diagnosed me with hyperemesis gravidarum, but I'm thinking that it would have manifested itself before 15 weeks - right? It would sooo not be pleasant to have that, so I was going with a stomach bug.
Around 6:30, I started to throw up again - I guess the shot wore off. After a couple of bouts of that, I relented and asked for the suppository. I wasn't looking forward to that, but I was miserable. RJ was wearing thin...he was with the kids all day...as a reminder, they are 5 and almost 3...PJ was having to be reminded to sit on the potty every 20 minutes...this is not how RJ thought he'd be spending his days off...etc. Eventually I felt better and went to sleep.
Tuesday, was fine and I was feeling better, but was producing tons of stomach acid.
Spring Break was pretty much a bust...I feel badly for RJ who took the week off to get some things done and instead had to play every role the family needed.
More on the weeks following Spring Break to the present to come...
Thursday, April 08, 2010
It Has Been Crazy
I know I left you all hanging with how PJ's potty training went...that is because 2 short days later, I came down with a stomach bug. And...things have been crazy ever since. I'll try hard to make it a priority to write a nice newsy update over the weekend. I won't be going to the teaching conference for which RJ and I are on the planning committee...because PJ has the flu. Where he picked up the flu? I don't know, but a rapid flu test confirmed the diagnosis. If I don't come down with the flu, I should have some time to update this weekend.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Potty Training PJ
Today, while LJ is at school and I am at work - RJ is teaching PJ how to use the potty.
As you may recall, LJ had great success with Toilet Training in Less Than a Day and that is the method RJ is using with P today. I bought the snacks, drinks, stickers, and prizes last weekend. I have already received the joyful call from PJ telling me that he pee-peed on the potty, so I know there is success.
Now, RJ will have to take the front off of PJ's crib...actually, his crib converts to a bed...so that PJ can get up and go whenever he need to do so.
We have the week of Spring Break ahead of us for any accidents (LJ had about 3 or 4 the week following training day). PJ used his last diaper last night, so we are diaper free!
As you may recall, LJ had great success with Toilet Training in Less Than a Day and that is the method RJ is using with P today. I bought the snacks, drinks, stickers, and prizes last weekend. I have already received the joyful call from PJ telling me that he pee-peed on the potty, so I know there is success.
Now, RJ will have to take the front off of PJ's crib...actually, his crib converts to a bed...so that PJ can get up and go whenever he need to do so.
We have the week of Spring Break ahead of us for any accidents (LJ had about 3 or 4 the week following training day). PJ used his last diaper last night, so we are diaper free!
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Presenting...
Momma Snowman:
It started snowing yesterday around 1:00 pm and snowed pretty hard until about 5:00 pm. The boys (including RJ) built this, their first snowman. The kids call "her" - "Momma". She is still out there...despite sun and a high of 50. She is thinner now, but every time we leave or come home the kids shout "Bye Momma" or "Hi Momma".
Thursday, February 04, 2010
Seems Like this is All About LJ
Chuck E. Cheese's was not so bad. It was a weekday and at 5:00, so it was relatively uncrowded. By the time the crowds showed up, the birthday party kids were eating and anxiously awaiting Chuck's appearance. LJ had a great time, so it was worth it - I suppose.
LJ's school is having a fund raiser. I loathe fund raisers. You know, I should really *like* fund raisers...as a way of having money other than through taxes, but...since we already pay tuition at this school...a fund raiser is just a chore. Thus far, I have taken the attitude that I will donate money rather than time...I'm too lazy and too tired to clean up or set up or man a booth or head a committee...so, they get donations that involve buying something or another. The theme is Children Mean the World to Us and it is an "International Dinner"...so one might bring food that represents their cultural roots. No, I'm not making food. There is also a silent auction. Each class is putting together a basket for the silent auction. LJ's class theme is "All American Dinner", so I bought a gift card from Omaha Steaks. Of course, Omaha Steaks is always having a "fire sale" - you know...really slashing prices. I don't know who ever buys anything for regular price...they are the TJ Maxx of beef. While purchasing the gift card, I ordered some food. Then, I had to find room in the freezer for this food...that was no easy task!
We also had a teacher conference with LJ's teacher after school Friday (scheduled - she does this with everyone in the Spring). She says she has nothing she is concerned about with LJ...which is good because I hope she would have told us by now if she did! He is very happy and joyful. At the first of the school year, he seemed to be so excited he wouldn't do any one thing for very long, but now he will stay focused on an activity for longer...now that he is acclimated. He seems very social - knows everyone's names and he tells people things like, "that is a nice picture you drew" or "I really like this tower you made" - and she says that isn't very usual for kids at this age. I have no idea if this is usual or not. A new boy started school in January and she said that LJ has been very nice to Peyton - playing with him and showing him where things are, etc. All good - I just want my kids to me nice.
Later today, we are headed to the craft store for some supplies. LJ has a Valentine's party at school next week, so we need to make some valentines. I know we could just buy the store bought kind, but this gives us something to do together. I'm sure the first 2 will be fun - the other 14 will probably become a chore and I'll have to cajole LJ into finishing them. I figure, if we can start tomorrow, we can do 2-3 a day and be ready to take them to school on the 15th. Of course, this means I have to commit to 2-3 a day myself.
LJ's school is having a fund raiser. I loathe fund raisers. You know, I should really *like* fund raisers...as a way of having money other than through taxes, but...since we already pay tuition at this school...a fund raiser is just a chore. Thus far, I have taken the attitude that I will donate money rather than time...I'm too lazy and too tired to clean up or set up or man a booth or head a committee...so, they get donations that involve buying something or another. The theme is Children Mean the World to Us and it is an "International Dinner"...so one might bring food that represents their cultural roots. No, I'm not making food. There is also a silent auction. Each class is putting together a basket for the silent auction. LJ's class theme is "All American Dinner", so I bought a gift card from Omaha Steaks. Of course, Omaha Steaks is always having a "fire sale" - you know...really slashing prices. I don't know who ever buys anything for regular price...they are the TJ Maxx of beef. While purchasing the gift card, I ordered some food. Then, I had to find room in the freezer for this food...that was no easy task!
We also had a teacher conference with LJ's teacher after school Friday (scheduled - she does this with everyone in the Spring). She says she has nothing she is concerned about with LJ...which is good because I hope she would have told us by now if she did! He is very happy and joyful. At the first of the school year, he seemed to be so excited he wouldn't do any one thing for very long, but now he will stay focused on an activity for longer...now that he is acclimated. He seems very social - knows everyone's names and he tells people things like, "that is a nice picture you drew" or "I really like this tower you made" - and she says that isn't very usual for kids at this age. I have no idea if this is usual or not. A new boy started school in January and she said that LJ has been very nice to Peyton - playing with him and showing him where things are, etc. All good - I just want my kids to me nice.
Later today, we are headed to the craft store for some supplies. LJ has a Valentine's party at school next week, so we need to make some valentines. I know we could just buy the store bought kind, but this gives us something to do together. I'm sure the first 2 will be fun - the other 14 will probably become a chore and I'll have to cajole LJ into finishing them. I figure, if we can start tomorrow, we can do 2-3 a day and be ready to take them to school on the 15th. Of course, this means I have to commit to 2-3 a day myself.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Working on Reading
A mommy on my message board introduced me to Progressive Phonics...this website is amazing! Even though LJ knows his letters and pretty much what sounds they make, I printed off the first book in the Alphabet section. We read it before his nap today - and he had a great time making the letters with his hands and being able to read 2 words on each page. After his nap, we're going to practice writing the letters...trust me, he could use the practice. I have high hopes for success with this! The only problem we have is - he likes "Electric Company" and that show often focuses on rules and exceptions to phonics. He is having trouble with "g" being "guh" because there is a song on "Electric Company" about how "g" can make the "juh" sound...so he keeps saying "dodge" instead of "dog". We're working on it though!
Monday, January 25, 2010
Papers and Parties
We are back in the swing of things. LJ is all better and none of the rest of us caught his illness. He didn't miss any school, so that is good.
About school - I suppose this is no shock to anyone who has kids in school, but they send home a lot of papers! There is always something I'm supposed to volunteer for, or something they are putting together that I'm supposed to gather items for, or some form I'm supposed to fill out and return. It is exhausting! I actually like the days that RJ picks him up because these papers usually stay in the car and I can remain blissfully unaware of their existence.
LJ has been invited to a birthday party - at Chuck E. Cheese's. He is so excited because we have *never* taken him to Chuck E. Cheese's. CiCi's Pizza is the most I can handle. The question is - do you leave your 5 year old at a birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese's and come back later and pick him up? Because, I don't think I'm going to do that. I think I'm going to hang out at Chuck E. Cheese's while he is there. Trust me, I don't want to be there, but I don't think I am going to leave a 5 year old in the care of someone else (who is also watching 15 other kids) at public place. What in the world does a 5 year old girl want for her birthday??? Suggestions are appreciated.
About school - I suppose this is no shock to anyone who has kids in school, but they send home a lot of papers! There is always something I'm supposed to volunteer for, or something they are putting together that I'm supposed to gather items for, or some form I'm supposed to fill out and return. It is exhausting! I actually like the days that RJ picks him up because these papers usually stay in the car and I can remain blissfully unaware of their existence.
LJ has been invited to a birthday party - at Chuck E. Cheese's. He is so excited because we have *never* taken him to Chuck E. Cheese's. CiCi's Pizza is the most I can handle. The question is - do you leave your 5 year old at a birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese's and come back later and pick him up? Because, I don't think I'm going to do that. I think I'm going to hang out at Chuck E. Cheese's while he is there. Trust me, I don't want to be there, but I don't think I am going to leave a 5 year old in the care of someone else (who is also watching 15 other kids) at public place. What in the world does a 5 year old girl want for her birthday??? Suggestions are appreciated.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
LJ is Sick
This next-to-never happens - LJ seems to be made of steel...he is truly never sick...especially compared to PJ who is sick every-other week. But, alas, LJ met his match. He had about 102 fever yesterday and his "tongue hurts". I translate that to mean his throat hurts. He laid around most of the day yesterday and then, after sun down, he seemed to deteriorate. He even had a sleep walking episode last night.
Today, his fever has been hovering around 99 and, while his "tongue" still hurts, he seems to be feeling better. If I discount the green gook coming from his left eye - he looks normal. I'm debating about this green gook. His eye is not pink or red, so could he still have "Pink Eye"? I have some drops from when I had Pink Eye, but should I put them in his eye when Pink Eye has not been diagnosed? I just don't like these cooties around! I've banned LJ and PJ from playing together (this will likely work for about 30 minutes). I've lectured LJ to wash his hands all the time. I haven't noticed LJ rubbing his eye. I guess I'll let it ride until to tomorrow and call the doctor if things don't improve.
LJ is most saddened by the fact that, due to his illness, we did not get to accompany RJ to Grandma and Grandpa's house. What was going to be an overnight trip became a day trip for RJ only.
I'm hoping none of us get this illness...if we do, that'll put us being ill right at...the first week of school - lovely.
Today, his fever has been hovering around 99 and, while his "tongue" still hurts, he seems to be feeling better. If I discount the green gook coming from his left eye - he looks normal. I'm debating about this green gook. His eye is not pink or red, so could he still have "Pink Eye"? I have some drops from when I had Pink Eye, but should I put them in his eye when Pink Eye has not been diagnosed? I just don't like these cooties around! I've banned LJ and PJ from playing together (this will likely work for about 30 minutes). I've lectured LJ to wash his hands all the time. I haven't noticed LJ rubbing his eye. I guess I'll let it ride until to tomorrow and call the doctor if things don't improve.
LJ is most saddened by the fact that, due to his illness, we did not get to accompany RJ to Grandma and Grandpa's house. What was going to be an overnight trip became a day trip for RJ only.
I'm hoping none of us get this illness...if we do, that'll put us being ill right at...the first week of school - lovely.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Decorations Down
Christmas decorations are down and boxes are waiting to be organized and taped up. We are out of packing tape, but a trip to the grocery store - for more than packing tape - will rectify that. I dread taking the decorations down. It actually kind of depresses me. RJ usually surprises me by taking down the tree while I'm out of the house, so this year was one of the first years that I have helped take down the tree. We all went to the "Cheese Enchilada Store" for dinner - nothing like food to try to bring you out of depression.
It has been crazy cold here the last few days. Our gas bill is going to be gigantic this month...the heater has been running quite a bit. There has been a ring of ice on top of the pool the last 2 mornings...we've been running the pump so that it doesn't freeze. The pipes in RJ's garage froze - which is no surprise. The only things that busted are some valves, so hopefully that won't be too much to deal with. He is getting ready to run the electricity out there - which, of course, is a big project that I'm amazed he knows how to do.
I'm going to have to find some time to go into work this week - I need to make my syllabus, calendar, etc. All good things must end - this was a GREAT break and probably the best Christmas we've had since having the kids.
Thursday, January 07, 2010
LJ Back to School
LJ went back to school yesterday - he was excited to go. He and RJ returned the last 2 tricycles that RJ had been repairing for the school, so I know they both had emotion regarding that... RJ, happy to have that chore behind him and LJ proud to bring them to school. PJ and I spent the morning doing odd chores, playing the Thomas computer game he got for Christmas and returning things to Super Walmart. I'd just as soon never go to Super-Walmart again. That place is a mad house. We picked up LJ from school and he had many things to tell us. It seems there is a new boy in his class, Peyton, and Peyton is LJ's "new best friend". First of all, a new person does not stand a chance of being left alone by either of our children. Second of all, Peyton apparently has the same shoes as LJ, so this sealed the deal. I heard about all the things they did, including all the the things the Peyton did "wrong" - like go to the loft without taking his name off of big blocks...so, he was in the loft, but his name indicated he was in big blocks...GASP! We discussed how Peyton is new and it will take time for him to learn how everything works.
Today, it is cold - 35 and falling...a low of 20 tonight. It is windy. I have no plans to leave the house. I'm sure we will all be stir crazy within the hour.
Does anyone have a Roomba? How do you like it? The idea of a machine that automatically vacuums the floor is quite appealing!
Saturday, January 02, 2010
Katherine Made Me Cry Today
She doesn't know it (yet), but it is all her fault! Assigning blame adequately shows you how much I dislike having my emotions stirred, but as a parent - I am getting some practice and learning how to handle it better.
It all started on Sunday, December 6 when RJ and I had a lovely dinner with Katherine. During that dinner, she gave us free movie passes, but only if we would use them to see the 10:10 (PM!) showing of "The Blind Side". She insisted we see it, the tickets were free, and - since we had no children with us that weekend - I even decided I could stay up waaaay past my bedtime. The movie was good - I enjoyed it, but it made me want to read the book.
Fast forward (but still in the past) to Wednesday, December 16th when I decided I needed some reading material for the Christmas break and I further decided I was going to use a bookstore gift card I had received when PJ was born (going on 3 years ago now). I bought 3 books. Michael Connelly's new one - 9 Dragons, Vince Flynn's new one - Pursuit of Honor (both hardback and a TOTAL splurge) and The Blind Side, by Michael Lewis. I read Connelly first - I love Harry Bosch and I needed to know what he's up to...and it is partially set in Hong Kong, so I was anxious to read what M&B are experiencing (although it is not the same as Harry Bosch - thank goodness).
I started The Blind Side on December 31st. The chapters are long and it is MUCH more about the evolution of the game of football (as the subtitle dictates) than the movie. I am finding the evolution of the game of football to be quite fascinating. It does take a bit longer to digest since I'm not as versed in football terminology, but it truly is very interesting - I update RJ regularly throughout the day. Lewis is doing his best to make me see the evolution of the game to the point where the left tackle is so important.
The chapter I read today - a chapter solely focused on how Bill Walsh transformed the passing game - made me cry. Sounds crazy, but it is true.
It all started on Sunday, December 6 when RJ and I had a lovely dinner with Katherine. During that dinner, she gave us free movie passes, but only if we would use them to see the 10:10 (PM!) showing of "The Blind Side". She insisted we see it, the tickets were free, and - since we had no children with us that weekend - I even decided I could stay up waaaay past my bedtime. The movie was good - I enjoyed it, but it made me want to read the book.
Fast forward (but still in the past) to Wednesday, December 16th when I decided I needed some reading material for the Christmas break and I further decided I was going to use a bookstore gift card I had received when PJ was born (going on 3 years ago now). I bought 3 books. Michael Connelly's new one - 9 Dragons, Vince Flynn's new one - Pursuit of Honor (both hardback and a TOTAL splurge) and The Blind Side, by Michael Lewis. I read Connelly first - I love Harry Bosch and I needed to know what he's up to...and it is partially set in Hong Kong, so I was anxious to read what M&B are experiencing (although it is not the same as Harry Bosch - thank goodness).
I started The Blind Side on December 31st. The chapters are long and it is MUCH more about the evolution of the game of football (as the subtitle dictates) than the movie. I am finding the evolution of the game of football to be quite fascinating. It does take a bit longer to digest since I'm not as versed in football terminology, but it truly is very interesting - I update RJ regularly throughout the day. Lewis is doing his best to make me see the evolution of the game to the point where the left tackle is so important.
The chapter I read today - a chapter solely focused on how Bill Walsh transformed the passing game - made me cry. Sounds crazy, but it is true.
Friday, January 01, 2010
Happy New Year
Before I can begin any blogs in 2010, I must catch up on the highlights of the last few weeks of 2009.
Christmas morning was fun - watching the kids get excited about clothes! Always nice. And toys too! RJ's family came after noon and we snacked while the kids napped. We had the 2nd round of Christmas before eating dinner.
Saturday morning, Uncle B and I went to spinning class (RPM), so that was nice. Saturday was playing, visiting and naps.
Sunday everyone (except me and the kids) slept until 9 – can you believe the luxury?!?!? I was up posting for the U of Phoenix section I started that day. At 2:00 we left for our Polar Express train ride. This is what we bought Grandma and Grandpa for Christmas. We drove 2 hours – the kids in their pajamas – to ride a steam engine with a Polar Express theme. They did it up great! There were songs, Christmas carols, chefs dancing in the aisle, kids in pajamas, hot chocolate, cookies, etc. We were taking Santa back to the North Pole and at one point Santa came through our car and handed each child a reindeer bell. When we got to the North Pole, it was all light up and decorated for Christmas. On the way back from dropping off Santa, they read the book to the kids. Everyone seemed to really enjoy it!
LJ's birthday party was a mountain of fun. He chose Spiderman for the theme - to my knowledge, he has not watched an episode of Spiderman, so I don't know how he decided on this theme. It became clear that he did not have a concept for super-heroes as he and PJ would put on the Spiderman-mask party favors and chase each other around yelling "Grrrr". After a few days of this, we explained super-heroes, real-life names, and arch-enemies. LJ was super-pleased with all of his party-attendees (Grandma, Grandpa, MawMaw, Jfer, Bekah, Uncle B, Aunt M, Cousin E, other Uncle B and Godmother KK) and had a great time turning them all around while they, with blindfold, tried to pin-the-mask-on Spiderman. The poster still hangs on his bedroom door.
Thanksgiving was great! We had the usual (now traditional) Thanksgiving foods and the NoJos regained the Turkey Bowl title. The Jos were without their London (now, Hong Kong) kids and the addition of Jimmy (a student we work with who joined us for the day) and the inches that JRod provided were not enough to bring them another victory. It was Miles' first Thanksgiving and we all enjoyed celebrating with him. The moment I sat down to eat the fine feast, I realized that my throat was killing me and thus started a week-long cold.
Finals, the end of the semester, My U of P class, various Holiday parties and lunches, and RJ's extended family Christmas party kept us so busy that I was a week behind of Christmas cards, Christmas decorations, and gift selecting. One day, LJ got in the car after school and told me that they did a play in school that day. I asked him what the play was about and he said, "Mary and Joseph". "Oh," I say, "what part did you play?".
LJ: "I don't know who I was."
Me: "Did you say any words?"
LJ: "I said, 'I don't have any room for you, but you can sleep in my staple."
Me: "Oh, you were the inn keeper. And, it is 'stable', not 'staple'."
LJ: "Yeah. Tomorrow, I'm going to try for Joseph."
Hilarious.
A few days later, RJ took LJ to school and picked him up - and LJ said, "Daddy, you didn't come see my play." We had no idea we were supposed to come see this play. I had previously grilled LJ regarding if they were practicing for a performance, or what? Everyday, he had come home having played a different part, so it didn't seem they were planning to perform - and it was not on the December calendar. Turns out, we had gotten a note - one of the myriad of notes they give every day - that on 4 different days they would be doing the Nativity and we could come watch, if we wanted. So, we went to the next 3 as it seemed parents were going every day...plus, he was a different part every day!
We went up to my brother's house the week before Christmas and we all celebrated my Mom's 80th birthday! ALL of my family was there. Every sibling and every spouse and every child. This is a rare thing. My brother and his family did a SUPER job of organizing the festivities and we had a terrific time. We stayed 4 nights (in a lovely new hotel) and just had a really nice visit.
Once we got back home it was laundry, grocery shopping, Christmas shopping and baking as Christmas was only 2 days away! It seemed like a mad rush, but it was all great fun. LJ and I spent the day before Christmas baking goodies and cookies for Santa. We went to Children's Mass at 4:00. After that, we went to On the Border for dinner. This stems from On the Border being the only place open on Christmas Eve 4 years ago. Then we came home and the kids opened the one gift they are allowed to open on Christmas Eve - new pajamas. They put them on and then they put out milk and cookies and went to bed. Then, RJ and I wrapped all the Christmas presents while we watched A Christmas Story on TV. We actually made it to be by 11:30 this year...no toys to assemble.
Saturday morning, Uncle B and I went to spinning class (RPM), so that was nice. Saturday was playing, visiting and naps.
Sunday everyone (except me and the kids) slept until 9 – can you believe the luxury?!?!? I was up posting for the U of Phoenix section I started that day. At 2:00 we left for our Polar Express train ride. This is what we bought Grandma and Grandpa for Christmas. We drove 2 hours – the kids in their pajamas – to ride a steam engine with a Polar Express theme. They did it up great! There were songs, Christmas carols, chefs dancing in the aisle, kids in pajamas, hot chocolate, cookies, etc. We were taking Santa back to the North Pole and at one point Santa came through our car and handed each child a reindeer bell. When we got to the North Pole, it was all light up and decorated for Christmas. On the way back from dropping off Santa, they read the book to the kids. Everyone seemed to really enjoy it!
All our company left on Monday and we spent the last week of 2009 hanging out and playing. I caught the cold I was destined to catch as PJ and RJ have had one for what-seems-like forever. New Year's Eve, M and B arrived to help us ring in 2010. We ate a dinner of crab melt sandwiches, fennel and cabbage cole-slaw (which I chopped with my new food processor) and strawberry tarts. Thanks to a Max and Ruby episode, LJ had declared he was going to "stay up late and eat cookies". He even knew he was going to stay up until "both hands are on 12". Great. I didn't even want to stay up THAT late...ringing in the New Year on the East Coast is good enough for me! We decided to put the kids in their PJ and drive to look at Christmas lights...hoping PJ would fall asleep and go to bed without realizing LJ was not going to bed. This worked. But, LJ stayed up until midnight and appears to be fairing better than the rest of us. M and B are off to their annual get-together with their college friends and PJ and RJ are napping.
Here's to a GREAT 2010 - and I intend to do a better job of blogging!
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